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If you need to get a glass of water or take a long walk to contemplate the meaning of life, I understand. You’re telling her that you’re not confident that she does like you…which means she’ll start looking for a reason not to. Fortunately, there are some surefire signs that a girl is interested in you; you just need to know where to look.

Okay… There is this girl that I like but I can’t figure out if she likes me back or she’s just being herself. She say that I should not text or call her but she call and text from time to time.To I texted her told her dam girl you are fine in the last hour but at least she didn’t curse me out on the phone or text.

Yet each time you see them, you can grow in confidence with regards to her true feelings toward you. If she does something that requires an investment of time rather than money, she’s definitely into you and trying to show it. If, on the other hand, she is clutching her handbag across her midriff and looking away from you a lot, she’s trying to maintain a physical barrier between you and her either because she’s not interested, or because she is not yet comfortable enough in your presence. This one’s a little tricky because a woman holding something in her hands can mean very different things.

What a waste it will be for you to never ask a woman out simply because she doesn’t display any signs. There could be absolutely no connection, until the moment you strike up a conversation with her and spark one. Now, while you might be under the impression that she likes you, there’s truly only one way to find out. People wear all sorts of disguises, and reading them isn’t always easy.

If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested. This might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out.

There’s an old phrase about why people copy each other: imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. So, if you’ve been consistently hanging out with a girl for 5-6 weeks, and she still doesn’t want to hang out with just you when you ask, she may only want to be friends. She may check her Instagram a few times or send an occasional text, but for the most part, she’s really engaged with what you two are doing or talking about. A two hour date suddenly turns into an eight hour date, and neither of you seem to notice where the time went.

• A woman turning from a ‘closed’ position (facing away from you) to an open one (where she is facing you), the unknown stranger, is literally opening up to you.
• I think you should forget about communicating with her on social media and concentrate on talking with her in person.
• I am very shy and she is very loud and I get a feeling that she loves making me uncomfortable because she always asked me who I liked and she would hug me at random times.
• If a girl goes out of her way to laugh at your (probably terrible) jokes, it’s a sure sign that she’s into you.
• If you to want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Twitter or Facebook.
• A man who is sexually attracted to you will want all of your attention.

Elvina Lui is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in relationship counseling. Hack Spirit is a blog by Lachlan Brown and shares practical tips and strategies to help you live a more mindful and awesome life.

36. Has she requested about your plans for the day or the weekend?

Don’t be in a rush in order for her to say I Love You Too. Tell her how you feel emotionally and wait for her to respond.

Suddenly she becomes this social butterfly and starts leading the conversation in order to steal and control your attention. On the other hand, I’ve noticed a lot of guys dread asking those types of things because they feel it conveys their true emotions instantly. There’s no doubt about it, women love to gossip and gab about anything and everything. If a woman gently taps you with her fingers, puts her hand on your arm, or gives you a little whack on the ribcage with her hand, she probably likes you.

For example, if you had quite an affectionate relationship before and she suddenly avoids touching you then something’s probably up. The next time you’re in a situation where both of you will be in the same room, watch to see if her eyes seek you out when she arrives. She could act happy when she catches your stare or she could be shy and drop her gaze as if she didn’t see you. She’ll literally avoid your gaze because she doesn’t want to be too obvious that she likes you. Normally women are supposed to be careful with whom they are with, so if she looks relaxed even if you are in her space, it is a good signal!

Again, this will vary from girl to girl, but generally, if we like someone, we’ll message them back pretty quickly. She may no longer feel as comfortable being that friendly because in her heart she wants more.